I suspect love is an often temporary chemical imbalance
if the brain induced by sensory stimuli that causes us to
maintain focus on something that carries an adaptive agenda.
Love is an adaptive feeling or emotion
like hate, jealousy, hunger, thirst
necessary where rationality alone would not suffice
to carry the day.
Enjoy.
Love and money.
I see how bankruptcy is so closely linked to laziness and inertia to get part time work, plus, some sheer luck definitely. With Xmas, CNY, V Day and birthdays around the corner, I hope I can file for bankruptcy, turn over a new leaf and start earning my own bucks from scratch. Ever since I got rejected by a government body for a part time position, and plain unwillingness AND bad coincidence of turning down a job agencys offer to help, I was thrown right to the bottom of a well, unable to pick myself up.
On the other hand, I was deep inside grinning away at the chance of complete free life, allowing lazy worms to multiply.
Alas, tell me how to meet my leisure expenses. And the little assets I hope to acquire. This is, thus, so far, my major headache this vacation. Typical. *throws up hands helplessly.* I need the Vitamins M desperately, yet naively hoping they would drop from the blue sky.
I dream of being a tai tai. If fantasizing allows more creative spaces, I would gladly be a princess, where all my monetary needs will be sponsored, generously. In reality, I didn find myself a handsome rich prince. Lol. I found myself a cute looking pauper, who would only want to knock my head furiously to wake me up.
To be honest, I seriously think people who are not financially independent have not much rights to talk about love. It is painful, and torturing not to be able to buy something that you know would make him or her happy. Then again, love should not be measured in monetary terms.
We were sort of in the conversation of how often girlfriends should be pampered, by boyfriends, with showers of gifts and blah. I think we didn meet eye to eye. He strongly believed that girls should only be pampered on special occasions. While I thought that should be done as often as possible, especially when she is someone with frequent insecure feelings. It is only necessary. Being pampered ONLY on special occasions, seems too rational a behavior when two persons are in love. I don know. What do you say?
posted by meihui @ 9:05 PM
Wishlist
nokia 3230
reading good books
magazines
bags
more cosmetics
more time with him
accessories
haircut
skirts
laptop
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